Daily routines might seem meaningless at first.
On one hand, doing the same tasks every day can feel like a chore; on the other, you can find purpose in yourself when you accomplish your to-do list.
Lucy has lived independently at Gabriel Homes since 2009 and is a leader for her housemates. She knows her daily routine like the back of her hand and holds friends and staff accountable for plans. Other occasional tasks like dentist appointments are second nature to Lucy, who can handle many things without on-site support.
“Lucy is on top of everything with her schedule. Our on-call line knows they can rely on her to reach out and share where she’s headed.” 
Naomi Pariona Gabriel Homes Program Coordinator
Her job at the United States Geological Survey (USGS) is a 10-minute bus ride or one-mile walk from her home. Working as an office cleaner through Goodwill Greater Washington for 15 years, Lucy often takes charge of cleaning routes. She folds her rag into perfect squares before cleaning surfaces, and she can clean the office cafeteria in under 30 minutes.
“There aren’t enough workers like Lucy. Her work ethic and productivity are top-notch, and she’s great at going the extra mile with cleaning.”
Kim Gladney, Lucy’s Boss & Project Manager at Goodwill Greater Washington
When her shift is over, Lucy rides the bus back home and takes a short nap. On Tuesday and Wednesday afternoons, Lucy goes on walks with her neighbors, John and Rich. She lives down the street from the guys, who quickly jump into action when she tells them to grab their shoes. Walks are about a mile and a half long, and Lucy tends to pull ahead of the pack. Lucy waits at different traffic signs so John and Rich can catch up to her.
“Sometimes we feel too lazy to walk, but Lucy is good at motivating us. Friends keep each other on track so that we walk again tomorrow!” 
Rich Gabriel Homes Resident
Her housemates get home later in the evening because they have longer commutes. Everyone spends some time alone in their rooms, unwinding after work, before joining for dinner. The housemate who cooks rotates each evening. When Lucy takes the chef’s hat, she prepares the fan-favorite spaghetti with meatballs and vegetables served with a salad.
“I’m better at cooking since moving to Gabriel Homes. Staff like Jackie can be a big help, but I like making spaghetti on my own. Cooking is a nice, easy way to end the day.” 
Lucy Gabriel Homes Resident
Among residents like Lucy, no two days are the same at Gabriel Homes.
Different jobs and interests mean there are endless stories of independence. If you’re thinking about becoming a resident at Gabriel Homes, see what a day in the life might look like and think about how yours may differ.
More resident spotlights at Gabriel Homes:
Five Ways Financial Independence Can Empower Adults With IDD July 2, 2025 Read More
Lucy: A Beacon of Independence at Gabriel Homes July 1, 2025 Read More
Four Residents Celebrate 30 Years Living at Gabriel Homes June 24, 2025 Read More
Community Corner: Adults With IDD Go the Extra Mile in Independence June 12, 2025 Read More
Residents Share Favorite Memories with Their Dads June 1, 2025 Read More
Family Adventures With Sara, Old and New May 29, 2025 Read More
Things to Do in Memphis: Gabriel Homes Edition May 27, 2025 Read More
Sunday Routines in NOVA Bring John and His Family Joy May 22, 2025 Read More
Community Corner: Extended Families Improve Communities May 16, 2025 Read More
Preparing Your Child With IDD (and Yourself) for Independence May 2, 2025 Read More
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Financial independence, the transition to adulthood for many including adults with IDD, is possibly the greatest stepping stone to self-sufficiency.
Did you know it can also be the difference-maker for your safety?
Many adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) work with trusted guardians and friends on supported decision-making, the process of advising but not forcing choices. When adults with IDD use supported decision-making for financial independence, they are more likely to be safer from scams and have greater self-determination.
“Financial independence is one piece of the independence puzzle. Your independence opens your potential to handle other tasks more easily, like personal shopping or paying bills.”
Alicia Liddle, Relationship Manager at Northwest Federal Credit Union (NWFCU); sister of Amanda, who has an IDD
Quality of life benefits go beyond dollars and cents. See five ways financial independence can empower adults with IDD, including our residents:
1. You can start slowly with financial independence.
Parents and Gabriel Homes staff slowly introduced tasks to residents’ routines. Some adults with IDD may be more regimented, so their trusted group starts by explaining the benefits and risks of financial independence. Budgeting and spending are taught the same as cooking or doing laundry — one step at a time.
“Our mom convinced Amanda over a long time to move her cash onto one card. NWFCU had a $400 deposit special when members opened a new account, so Amanda was excited about using the money to visit her family out of state. Today, she feels pride putting her paychecks into her bank account and managing her balance.”
Alicia Liddle
2. Learning Medicaid requirements can show you where to save and how to spend.
Medicaid recipients need to stay below $2,000 in assets to continue receiving benefits. Limits are in place because Medicaid is a needs-based program. For greater financial independence, adults with IDD can open special needs trusts and ABLE accounts to save and manage expenses.
“Virginia has different paths to financial independence for adults with IDD on Medicaid as opposed to other states. Someone could lose coverage if their parents died and Social Security Disability insurance put them over the asset limit. Fortunately, we helped pass a law in 2024 where recipients could keep their benefits regardless of the insurance payments.”
Lucy Beadnell, Director of Advocacy, The Arc of NOVA
3. Building a trusted team can teach you how you can be smart with your spending.
You rely on doctors for advice at medical appointments. Advice for financial independence is no different. The nature of some people’s disabilities may mean they have difficulty knowing where to start and whom to trust with money. Adults with IDD who work with family, financial planners, and legal experts can empower everyone to spend with confidence. Our residents save for movie nights and club dues, and they’re diligent about being wise with their paychecks.
“I get advice from my family, but I work to get paid every two weeks. Paychecks are for buying needs and wants. Every Saturday, I head to the movies. Weekends are a nice time to kick my feet up and watch a good show.” 
Rich D. Gabriel Homes Resident “Saving money for fun things outside of work is rewarding. My hard-earned cash goes toward my bowling league and the Knights of Columbus. I feel proud that I can have extra responsibility and treat myself because I know I can have fun without my family’s help.” 
Dave Gabriel Homes Resident
4. Financial independence is ongoing and educational.
There’s a sense of freedom when you make your first purchase using your first bank account. Then come the changes in your budget. Adults with IDD who budget for monthly and personal expenses face many of the same changes. Budgets, for example, may adjust based on new jobs or rising costs. Financial independence grows with change, and you build it with experience.
“Everyone, including adults with IDD, faces challenges and changes, and our finances go along for the ride. “You may achieve your goals at different speeds, but you feel peace in making empowered choices to reach them.”
Chris Greenhill, NWFCU Private Relationship Manager
5. Don’t give in to fear.
Lucy says many families fear someone might exploit their children’s finances. Many adults with IDD may have less freedom with their money if accounts have limits. On the other hand, other adults with IDD manage every cent and are afraid to spend it.
“Financial restrictions can feel disempowering. Someone with IDD may like traveling, so saving for vacations can feel important to them. Having clear plans on how to save and spend ultimately creates a safer environment for everyone.”
Lucy Beadnell
At Gabriel Homes, many residents save their money for birthday parties. Staff help pick up the food and decorations, but residents cover the cost. Friends enjoy marking birthdays on their calendars, and residents light up when the party arrives.
“I had the best birthday ever last year. We ate Chinese food, danced to ABBA, and opened a piñata with candy inside it. Then we had my favorite dessert: Snickers cheesecake!” 
Rich R. Gabriel Homes Resident
Learn more...
The Arc of NOVA’s webinar, “Empowered Budgeting: Practical Strategies for Financial Independence,” shares how you can smartly manage money hosted by budgeting experts from NWFCU. See the full webinar on YouTube.
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Reston, Va. — Gabriel Homes, a leading housing provider for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD), is opening registrations for the 30th annual golf tournament. The tournament tees off September 15 at 10 a.m. at Evergreen Country Club in Haymarket, Va. The much-anticipated event joins the community to support Gabriel Homes and raise funds for their high-quality services.
Secure Your Spot External LinkIn celebration of golfing for 30 years, Gabriel Homes promises this tournament to be the biggest and best to date. Golfers can enjoy 18 holes and breathtaking scenery within the Bull Run Mountains. Those who want to press their luck for prizes can also try skill challenges on the course or enter prize and 50-50 raffles.
“We’re excited to celebrate 30 years of compassion and competition. Our tournament is special because of our community’s passion for our residents. Since our first tournament, Gabriel Homes has been proud to celebrate the meaningful relationships among our golfers, residents, staff, board, and volunteers.”
Lynn Davis
Executive Director, Gabriel Homes
Golfers of all skill levels are welcome. Participants can register individually or as a team. Proceeds benefit services like events and home renovations so residents can focus on building their independence and achieving their dreams. Attendees can see the direct impact of their donations by meeting many of the residents on the course.
Thank you to last year’s Guardian Angel sponsors:
Paul Gallagher All Saints Catholic Church The Anderson Company B&B Signal Catholic Diocese of Arlington Nativity Catholic Church NT Concepts, Inc.Secure your spot at the 30th Annual Gabriel Homes Golf Tournament at signupgenius.com.
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Congrats, Ruth!
Ruth Cook, bookkeeper at Gabriel Homes, announces her retirement after seven years of service. Her retirement starts at the end of September.
During her tenure, Ruth developed easy-to-understand payment tracking systems using spreadsheets. When Gabriel Homes started receiving funds through Medicaid Waiver, Ruth helped with recording the state’s payments. Since eligibility for Medicaid had different requirements from the county, Ruth helped residents and their families monitor bank balances.
“The numbers show the story of what Gabriel Homes is like!”
Ruth Cook, Bookkeeper, Gabriel Homes
Ruth applied for the bookkeeper role after reconnecting with Executive Director Lynn Davis. Lynn’s husband worked with Ruth in the past and knew her to be a trusted worker. Lynn’s trust proved well-placed. During audits, Ruth’s sharp filing, accounting, and attention to detail helped Lynn quickly locate records.
“Gabriel Homes is entrusted with using funds responsibly. Ruth and I balance each other by being detailed with our records and fixing mistakes along the way.”
Lynn Davis
Executive Director, Gabriel Homes
Reconciliations, the process of matching bank statements with company cash records, were Ruth’s favorite monthly tasks. Ruth found comfort in seeing patterns between receipts and reports. But seeing missing expenses or figures that didn’t add up was frustrating. For peace of mind, she stayed diligent about reconciling numbers as soon as the month was over.
“I’ve seen Gabriel Homes’ progress in investing and planning forward. The team works hard to grow, and I’m proud to work on the financial reports they show at presentations.”
Ruth Cook, Bookkeeper, Gabriel Homes
Legacy Beyond Numbers
Ruth took pride in keeping the books and making the world a better place. She enjoyed her independence and felt empowered in her position. Shifts were routine, but each day was special when staff and residents said hi at her office.
“I’m going to miss my good friend,” says Rich (right), a resident at Gabriel Homes. “Some mornings, Ruth shares funny stories over coffee. She has such a great smile and laugh. I wish her all the best in her retirement.”
What’s Next?
Ruth Cook is keeping her options open for her next chapter following Gabriel Homes. Joining her church book club, Ruth’s short-term goal is to read more. In the long term, Ruth wants to travel the country with her husband and learn to watercolor paint.
“I will always be grateful that I worked here. The past seven years were full of the happiest work memories I ever had. I am so happy I can retire while I’m on top.”
Ruth Cook
Bookkeeper, Gabriel Homes
If you think working at Gabriel Homes sounds fun, stay on the lookout for any open positions.
Learn more at gabrielhomes.org/careers. Apply TodayMore News at Gabriel Homes:
Registration Opens for Gabriel Homes 30th Annual Golf Tournament July 1, 2025 Read More Ruth Cook Announces Retirement from Gabriel Homes June 30, 2025 Read More Gabriel Homes Residents Dominate Special Olympics States Powerlifting Tournament Results June 20, 2025 Read More The Treehouse: June 2025 Newsletter June 2, 2025 Read More The Treehouse: May 2025 Newsletter May 5, 2025 Read More Second Annual Spring Fling Raises the Roof April 15, 2025 Read More dddcd
Residents at Gabriel Homes take pride in their journeys toward independence.
Independence continues for years at Gabriel Homes.
Many of the residents’ stories at Gabriel Homes have lasted decades at our homes in Reston and Herndon. On average, residents have called us home for over 22 years, nearly double the usual length of U.S. homeownership.
Four residents, Caryn, Shelby, Sean, and Gabe, are celebrating 30 years of living at Gabriel Homes this year! The quartet might have moved in around the same time, but they have vastly different stories of independence, growth, and triumph.
First-hand account of our residents' growth years later:
Reuben Sidifall, senior residential counselor at Gabriel Homes, joined the staff in 1997; Beth Hoyos, director of quality improvement and clinical oversight at Gabriel Homes, started in 1998. The residents may have lived independently at Gabriel Homes three years before Reuben and Beth's start dates, but few other staff have been able to see them grow into the confident decision-makers they are today.
“I’ve seen Caryn, Shelby, Sean, and Gabe grow and develop into independent adults. Their success has motivated me to help accomplish Gabriel Homes’ mission.” 
Reuben Sidifall Senior Residential Counselor, Gabriel Homes
Shoutout to Shelby!
“I’m happy here for 30 years. I work hard every day, and I save money for special trips and events. My friends and I celebrated my birthday in June, and I bought KFC for everybody. Caryn, Patrick, John, Sara, and Chris are great housemates. We get along well and are respectful of each other’s personal spaces.”
Shelby
“Shelby brought a breath of fresh air with her musical talents and sweet personality 30 years ago. Today, her loving outlook is unchanged. She’ll always remind you what holiday is coming up and what color you should wear that day. Watching Shelby make independent choices that lead her to her goals is what makes my job feel so rewarding.”
Beth Hoyos
Cheers to Caryn!
“The past 30 years have been amazing. Shelby and I moved in at the same time, and we’ve become best friends who understand each other. I’ve gotten much better at cooking, and I can now make delicious pasta – ask John!
Caryn
“I’m also a more talented artist. I like making flags using red, white, and blue construction paper. You can see lots of my work around home!”
“Caryn was determined to live on her terms when she moved to Gabriel Homes. In 30 years, she’s learned to speak up for herself and her friends. Caryn leads by example by handling her housework and other personal tasks independently. If you see her, ask her to teach you sign language!”
Beth Hoyos
Salute to Sean!
“Thirty years can come and go. I do more with the residents than ever, from adult social club to Special Olympics and movie nights. When I make dinner on Men’s Night, the guys like my sandwiches and tomato soup. The staff are great, too. They spend so much time driving us for trips and getting to know us better.”
Sean
“Sean perfectly reflects our mission by living a full, independent life. Since moving to Gabriel Homes, he’s become a leader for his housemates. Sean holds staff and residents accountable for being on time and having their essentials before leaving home. He’s grown so much over time, and he hasn’t planned to stop learning!”
Beth Hoyos
Give It up for Gabe!
“I’ve liked living here for 30 years. When I get home from work, I watch the Washington Nationals or Baltimore Orioles on the basement TV. I’m now much better at fixing the TV if it’s not showing anything. When I cook dinner, my housemates really like my Hamburger Helper. Reuben is a big help in the kitchen!”
Gabe
“Gabe has greatly improved at being independent and managing his anxiety. I’ve worked with him on breathing exercises when he’s gotten overwhelmed at large crowds. He’s been able to do laundry on his own and is great at separating the light clothes from dark ones. And he can cook a great Hamburger Helper meal!”
Reuben Sidifall
Gabriel Homes keeps its homes in tip-top shape to protect our residents and meet changing needs.
See our success stories working with trusted housing partners at gabrielhomes.org/stories. Check out more stories
More resident spotlights at Gabriel Homes:
Four Residents Celebrate 30 Years Living at Gabriel Homes June 24, 2025 Read More
Community Corner: Adults With IDD Go the Extra Mile in Independence June 12, 2025 Read More
Residents Share Favorite Memories with Their Dads June 1, 2025 Read More
Family Adventures With Sara, Old and New May 29, 2025 Read More
Things to Do in Memphis: Gabriel Homes Edition May 27, 2025 Read More
Sunday Routines in NOVA Bring John and His Family Joy May 22, 2025 Read More
Community Corner: Extended Families Improve Communities May 16, 2025 Read More
Preparing Your Child With IDD (and Yourself) for Independence May 2, 2025 Read More
Sundays in Reston With Chris April 24, 2025 Read More
Community Corner: Special Olympics Bowling Brings Family & Friends Together April 17, 2025 Read More
Second Annual Spring Fling Raises the Roof April 15, 2025 Read More
Sites at the American Frontier: Exploring New Mexico and Utah March 31, 2025 Read More
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The Special Olympics powerlifting tournament results are in!
Gabriel Homes residents who train in Special Olympics powerlifting crushed the competition with their results in recent state-level matches in June. Everyone who competed walked away with first- or second-place medals in their weight classes.
Athletes competed in bench presses, deadlifts, and combinations. The latter combined the total weight lifted from the former two. Coaches like Bill Whiteside trained with the powerlifters every Tuesday evening for tournaments. Coach Bill said the state tournament was the most anticipated event of the year because it joined the best powerlifters across Virginia.
“I was so impressed and proud of our team. Our powerful athletes won 33 medals, and ten lifters set personal records. Everyone was fantastic.”
Coach Bill Whiteside
The results for the Special Olympics powerlifting state competition were as follows:
Bold = personal record
- Chris: 1st place bench press, 2nd place deadlift and combined
- Sam: 2nd place bench press, deadlift, and combined
- Joe: 1st place bench press, deadlift, and combined
- John: 1st place deadlift, 2nd place bench press and combined
- Sean: 1st place bench press, deadlift, and combined
“Getting three gold medals was awesome! I’m way better at powerlifting and much stronger this year. Getting first place was a big challenge, but I lifted more weights than I ever did!” 
Joe Gabriel Homes Resident https://www.gabrielhomes.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/sk-2025.06.14-special-olympics-powerlifting-tournament26.mp4https://www.gabrielhomes.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/jm-2025.06.14-special-olympics-powerlifting-tournament17.mp4
Past achievements carry into this season:
Last year, coaches worked with the powerlifting residents on following officials’ instructions. Missing any commands could lead to results disqualification in Special Olympics powerlifting. The coaches were confident about athletes hitting their cues, so this year’s goal was improving their form. Sam, for example, added more weight to his lifts when he started squatting lower.
“I like training with my friends at the gym every week. The guys at Gabriel Homes and I are much closer because we’ve done it for so long. I’m sad the season’s over, but I’m excited to try heavier weights next year.” 
Sam Gabriel Homes Resident
Our residents compete in a variety of sports as part of the Special Olympics.
See two of our residents competing in Special Olympics bowling at gabrielhomes.org/stories. Check it out!
More sports stories at Gabriel Homes:
Community Corner: Special Olympics Bowling Brings Family & Friends Together April 17, 2025 Read More
Community Corner: The Physical and Mental Benefits of Bowling February 28, 2025 Read More
Special Olympics Powerlifting Champions Return to Practice December 19, 2024 Read More
Community Corner: Special Olympics Coaches’ Impact December 1, 2024 Read More
Young Professionals Revitalize Nonprofit Boards November 25, 2024 Read More
Special Olympics Soccer Shines With January November 7, 2024 Read More
Gabriel Homes Powerlifters Pull a Plane at Dulles Airport October 4, 2024 Read More
Gabriel Homes Forecasts the 2024 NFL Season September 12, 2024 Read More
Board Member and Golf Enthusiast September 5, 2024 Read More
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Research shows that students can better succeed as adults if they learn how to make independent choices early on.
Students with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) who learn to advocate for themselves in K-12 education are more likely to hold a job, live independently, and be involved in their communities.
A leading Special Education Advocate in Virginia
Kendall Heren, a member of the Gabriel Homes board of directors, has worked in special education for nearly 15 years. After working as a Fairfax County teacher and eventually chairing the special education department, Kendall founded KNH Advocacy and began her work as an advocate in Virginia. Her business helps tailor individualized education plans (IEPs) for families of students enrolled in special education. With her background working with IEPs from the educator side, Kendall mediates between parents and schools to find the best learning path for students with IDD.
Following some of her former students’ graduations this spring, Kendall spoke about their milestones, her advocacy for independence in IEPs she helps produce, and ways the community can support people with IDD. Learn more about advocating for independence inside and outside of the classroom:
Gabriel Homes’ Q&A With Kendall Heren:
As an educator, what independent skills did you teach your students?
“Teaching social skills could be as simple as playing board games. Taking turns in games is a huge social skill because we do the same thing in conversation. We ask questions and listen when the other person responds. For young students, I made menus of questions they could ask someone sitting across from them. Scripted conversations helped students with listening to others’ answers and making eye contact with them.”
How are you empowering students now at KNH Advocacy?
“As a Special Education advocate in Virginia, I view the students I work with as future adults. When I develop IEPs, I review their records and testing to ensure everything is educationally appropriate. I identify goals, accommodations, and service needs based on the documentation, and then I compare them to current IEPs. If anything is missing or unclear, I bring notes to team meetings.
“Our meetings can be emotionally draining for parents and go on for hours. I try to support everyone in coming to a consensus with the IEP. Ultimately, I remind everyone that we’re here for the students so they have the best plan to become independent adults.”
How can parents help with their kids’ independence before sending them to school?
“Preparing for school can be children’s first predictable routine. Show them how to make their lunches, pick daily outfits, and pack their backpacks. If you show children where everything is, they can try to do those tasks themselves. Letting children do their morning routine without your help can promote a lot of confidence in their skills. Self-assurance is a big deal at an early age!”
Follow-up: What about when they return from school?
“The first ten minutes that kids are home with their parents is critical for childhood development. I always encourage parents to ask their kids open-ended questions like ‘Who did you sit with at lunch?’ or ‘What was the highlight of your day?’ Yes-or-no questions let kids take the easy way out of conversations. Letting them expand on their answers might introduce new conversations that, again, can build their confidence.”
What were your favorite moments seeing your students grow?
“I love seeing students have newfound confidence. There were students who sat under their desks and tore their worksheets. When they sat calmly and finished their projects, they were proud of themselves.
“Things that may seem small on the outside are everything to some students. In a general classroom, one of my students raised their hand for the first time in their academic career. Raising their hand showed they were worth being here, had a valid question or comment, and believed in themselves to share it. Self-pride is more important than any test score.”
What have students taught you about independence?
“I saw my first group of students graduate from high school. They came back to their schools in caps and gowns. Middle and high schoolers learned about the graduates’ experiences, and the alumni took photos with their former teachers.
“My former students’ graduation felt like a full-circle moment because they were taller than me and became full-fledged adults! The boy who couldn’t focus became the man advising younger students on how to pay attention in class. I couldn’t describe how I felt hearing him say that guidance with conviction.”
How can our community better advocate for adults with IDD?
“See people with disabilities as no different from any of us. They desire connections and believe in themselves and their abilities. As a community, we should empower them to enjoy independence like we do.”
“My sorority volunteered for Special Olympics bowling every Thursday. I went with a group of sisters for the first time as a try-it-and-see. Halfway through the evening, I looked down the alley of volunteers and athletes. I said to myself, ‘I am going to spend my entire life making these people’s lives better.’ I was taken aback by the kindness and acceptance of people I never met. Everyone was so welcoming and down-to-earth.
“The next morning, I changed from a business major to human development and later added psychology. I pursued internships in Special Education, worked at a nearby elementary school, and worked with Virginia Tech’s on-campus transition program. I never knew what my career path would be like, but I knew I wanted to be in this field. Looking back, my career has been the most fulfilling, life-changing experience I could have ever asked for.”
At Gabriel Homes, we envision an inclusive community where adults with IDD can live to their full potential.
See how our services help residents live fulfilling, independent lives at gabrielhomes.org. Learn More
More board spotlights at Gabriel Homes:
Special Education Advocate in Virginia Emphasizes Independence June 17, 2025 Read More
Faith Leader in Virginia Is a Father Figure to Many May 28, 2025 Read More
College and Independent Living Share Common Ground May 1, 2025 Read More
IDD Professional in Virginia Champions Growth for Gabriel Homes March 26, 2025 Read More
Ensuring Quality Housing for Adults With IDD at Gabriel Homes February 24, 2025 Read More
Racecar Driving in West Virginia: Cheryl Richardson Preaches Safety January 27, 2025 Read More
New Could Be You! Why You Should Join Our Board of Directors December 18, 2024 Read More
Gabriel Homes Announces Hall of Fame Class of 2024 December 6, 2024 Read More
Young Professionals Revitalize Nonprofit Boards November 25, 2024 Read More
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Good intentions when guiding your children can sometimes come at the cost of growth.
A Stanford study shows that children who have space to lead can better manage feelings, stay focused, and make smarter decisions on their own.
Independence has many success stories!
In our Mother’s and Father’s Day editions of our monthly newsletter, The Treehouse, we featured some of our residents’ parents in various stories. Since their children with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) became adults and moved to Gabriel Homes, many parents shared how proud they were of their children’s journeys toward independence.
Independence came up in conversations about family vacations, activities, and memories. See from our residents’ parents how independence has many shapes and sizes for adults with IDD:
Mark (right):
“John (left) loves his library membership and is on patrol when he’s there. He knows what he wants and checks out on his own. John plays Christmas music every day, so he gets holiday CDs for his music player. He and his housemates also love Disney movies, so he leaves with many DVDs. John’s favorite movies right now are ‘The Little Mermaid’ and ‘The Lion King.’”
Rick (left):
“Flying feels like a big accomplishment for Chris (right) when he sees me in Memphis. When he gets off the plane, I see his face shining and smiling like crazy! Chris loves the fact that he’s independent at the airport. He checks in, goes through security, gets to his gate, flies, and leaves without breaking a sweat.”
Lee:
“Sara (front) is an academic who loves writing and reading. She’s great at making meaning out of books and having unique interpretations of them. Her reading skills help with other independent tasks like traveling. Sara is flying to Florida through two major airports soon. I’m confident knowing she can read the directions and, if she needs it, ask for help.”
Linda:
“Kari (right) is excited about going out with people her age who have similar interests. On evenings and weekends, she goes out to concerts in Reston, sees friends at adult social club, and visits nearby museums. Many adults get bored tagging along with their parents’ friends, so Kari does everything with her friends like her brother does with his.”
Bob (right) and Joan (second to right):
“Gabe (left) being away from home has been a growing and learning experience for all of us, but the result has been phenomenal. His communication skills have been much clearer since moving to Gabriel Homes. At family reunions, Gabe is more outgoing and likes saying hi to everyone. In large crowds, he’s better at showing us what he needs when he’s overwhelmed, and we’re better at knowing how we can support him.”
Every month of The Treehouse has a new theme, so don’t miss out on future editions!
Join our community by signing up for next month’s newsletter at gabrielhomes.org. Sign Up Today
A Day in the Life at Gabriel Homes:
Community Corner: Adults With IDD Go the Extra Mile in Independence June 12, 2025 Read More
Four Facts About Reuben Sidifall May 30, 2025 Read More
Sunday Routines in NOVA Bring John and His Family Joy May 22, 2025 Read More
Community Corner: Extended Families Improve Communities May 16, 2025 Read More
Preparing Your Child With IDD (and Yourself) for Independence May 2, 2025 Read More
Sundays in Reston With Chris April 24, 2025 Read More
Gabriel Homes Residents Welcome Spring with Fresh Styles March 20, 2025 Read More
Rosa Leads Spring Cleanings in Reston March 18, 2025 Read More
Social Workers Spotlight Mental Health for Adults With IDD February 26, 2025 Read More
Exercise Builds Independence for Adults With IDD February 20, 2025 Read More
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The June 2025 edition of our newsletter, The Treehouse, shouts out many of the amazing fathers of Gabriel Homes.
Dads can play vital roles in empowering our residents to live and succeed independently. Join us in celebrating them in the Father’s Day edition in our June 2025 newsletter!
The Latest:
Residents Share Their Favorite Memories With Their Dads
In the May edition of our newsletter, we spoke with some of our residents’ moms about family traditions. But not all residents’ parents are with us today. This Father’s Day, residents shared their favorite memories with their dads so family legacies could live on.
Read memories from our residents at gabrielhomes.org.
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Sara's Adventures With Her Father
Sara chases thrills when the family travels. At Universal Studios in Orlando, she spent endless hours in Harry Potter World, her favorite book and movies series.
Learn more Sara's journeys at gabrielhomes.org.
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Sunday Routines Bring John and His Family Joy
On most Sundays from September to March, John (left) and his parents (dad pictured right) have jam-packed days. From the library to bowling to dinner, there's endless fun and little downtime.
Read about John’s Family Outings
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Things to Do in Memphis: Gabriel Homes Edition
Chris (first photo, center) looks forward to every trip to every trip down south, where he sees his dad, Rick (first photo, left), and stepmom, Mandy (first photo, right).
“Chris was looking out at the city one day, and he said to me, ‘Memphis is my kind of city.’”
Rick
Learn about Chris’ trips to Memphis
Community Corner:
Knights of Columbus and Extended Family
The Family of Man Council in Reston reflects brothers’ commitment to their families. Some brothers who are fathers see the Knights as extended family.
“Brothers do good for their families when they form support groups, open up to each other, and pray for others.”
-Bob Balog, brother of the Knights of Columbus
Learn about the Knights' impact on our residents
We want to hear from you!
Do you have a favorite memory with Gabriel Homes? Do you have advice for family members?
If there's something you've been longing to share, now is your chance! Email Lynn with your story or idea.
Board Spotlight
Faith Leader Is a Father Figure to Many
Many of you know him as Father Bob. Reverend Monsignor Bob Cilinski joined the Gabriel Homes board of directors in 1990 and helped usher us into strength and stability in his 33 years of service. Seeing the residents live their dreams was Fr. Bob's favorite achievement on the board.
“We wanted to do everything we could to provide independence to more families.”
Fr. Bob
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Staff Spotlight:
Get to Know Reuben This Father’s Day
Our senior residential counselor, Reuben (right), also is celebrating Father's Day. His daughter, Pierrein (left), joined Gabriel Homes as a residential counselor in 2020.
This June spotlight delves into some insight into Reuben, his family, and his dynamic with the residents.
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Residents’ Favorite Memories With Their Dads
Consumer spending may total over $22 billion on this year’s Father’s Day. The National Retail Federation says 75% of Americans plan to celebrate the June holiday, and the most common dad gifts are cards, clothing, and special outings.
Father’s Day is coming quickly...
... and residents at Gabriel Homes have plans for family visits and brunches. In the May edition of our newsletter, we spoke with some of our residents’ moms about family traditions. But not all residents’ parents are with us today. This Father’s Day, residents shared their favorite memories with their dads so family legacies could live on.
Chris:
“I come from an army dad who served for eight years. He was active during World War II and the Korean War. When I was little, Dad showed us our grandparents’ home in Pennsylvania. We walked his path to school, and he showed me where he graduated. I met some of his childhood neighbors. His friends said he was funny back then like he was with me. Dad’s sense of humor was teasing, but I messed with him, too. We had fun being silly together.”
Darcy:
“Dad worked with satellites and planes, and he knew lots about stars and constellations. He also got me into history. We would go on the computer, and he would read me the history of world events. African history was the most interesting to me since everyone has ancestry from there. When he wasn’t working, he volunteered at Wolf Trap. I always loved the free tickets his shows got us.”
Rich D.:
“When I lived in New York, Dad and I did the same trip to work together. We carpooled with his buddies, got doughnuts at the deli, and went to work on the same route. On family trips, we drove from New York to Atlanta to pick up my uncle, and we headed down to Florida. We either stayed at Sarasota’s beaches or Disney World in Orlando.
“On the anniversary of my dad’s death, I go to church and light a candle for him. He’s not here anymore, but he knows I love him.”
Angie:
“Dad and I played lots of games. He taught me how to use my forehand and backhand in tennis and signed me up for tennis camp. Football was on every Sunday in the fall when we were home, and I liked watching the games with him. Trips with Dad to Rehoboth Beach were the best, though. We walked through Funland on the boardwalk, where we played our favorite game, Skee-ball.”
January:
“I was in the backyard all the time when I was little because the swing set was so much fun. Dad was a strong pusher when I was on it. When it was hot outside, Dad was our grill-master. He knew how to grill steaks, and I liked mine well done. The Nationals were always playing in the spring and summer on our TV, so he got me into baseball. If the Nats weren’t playing, we were throwing the baseball in the backyard.”
Rich R.:
“My dad was such a great man. We played lots of football, but we were bad! Neither of us could catch or throw the ball, but at least we could hang onto it. Dad was great on the grill, though. Whenever he dropped the meat, he yelled, ‘God dang it!’ in a funny voice. I always laughed because he looked silly when he yelled. We joked about his meat drops every cookout.”
